The importance of lingerie in intimacy and desire

As Soft Paris Advisors, at each Soft Paris party we provide tips and advice to spice up couple’s intimate lives. Intimacy and desire are two key parts of a relationship. They help us to feed the flame of passion. Alain Héril, our partner sexologist answers some of our most frequently asked questions.

What is the role of eyes in fanning the flames of passion?

“Your eyes are a gateway to your soul. They can carry a look of expectation or desire. This might give the promise of a touch, a connection and instigate erotic desire.”

What is the importance of lingerie in sexual relationships?

“Lingerie may hide the erogenous zones, but it hides them delicately and harmoniously. This suggests that there’s a delicacy in lingerie. Lingerie promises gentleness, but invites the fires of passion. This is a tender invation to love and sex.”

What does the type of lingerie that women wear tell you about their personalities?

“Lingerie tells us about what a woman wants to be. She portrays a personality that she wants to embody during a sexual relationship, it’s similar to an actor wearing a costume.“

How to choose lingerie?

“Lingerie is best chosen, depending on the role you want to play with yourself as well as the role you want to play with each other! It’s important to always stay in a playful and joyful dimension!”

Are there any other interesting aspects that you’d like to share?

“Lingerie plays on the code of eroticism. Bra, Stockings, Suspenders and Briefs are an invitation to engage in slow, sensual carresses, rather than quick and active sexuality. Lingerie is a veil that must be lifted gently and tenderly.

Our lingerie suggestions for a tender invitation to love

  To play on your own codes of eroticism, why not choose the Viola - Bra and Brief, delicate and sexy in black lace. In chiffon and lace, the Naomi - Lace Body knows how to combine softness and elegance to bring unique moments of tenderness.     Be sure to choose lingerie that suits you, with advice from our expert Soft Paris Advisors. Book your Soft Paris Party!